Men and women may think sex is just sex. Hence, after a couple of months or even years it can feel like you have done it all. You know exactly where to put a hand, rub a particular area and bam you are there. Although, the act of penetration is pretty much the same, there are ways you can spice up your sex life.
Yes, getting dressed up and role playing is fun. But if the moves are the same every single time you run the risk of making your sex life pretty vanilla flavour. The human body has erogenous zones that when stimulated takes sex to the next level.
Whether it’s touching, bitting, pulling, when done right, these moves will take the dullness out your sex life. Men may worry they are being disrespectful or too rough with their partner. As long as no one is actually getting physically or emotionally hurt, fun and erotic sex among consenting adults is always welcomed.
#1. Breasts are there for a reason, stop ignoring them!
Guys tend to think breasts are only there for foreplay and tend to forget about them during intercourse. Breasts are highly stimulated through touching and caressing. Lightly and we mean lightly bitting the nipples will help a woman reach a bigger orgasm. If she’s on top of you, cup the breasts and tease them by circling around them with your fingers.
#2. Know where her G-spot is to help her reach orgasms of epic proportions.
The G-spot is the erogenous zone located two inches from the vaginal opening. The tissue in this area is highly sensitive causing high sexual pleasure when touched. Placing a couple of pillows under your partner’s butt will elevate her body, making it easier for you to touch the much coveted G-spot.
#3. Be spontaneous and surprise her with a quickie!
Women loved being surprised when it comes to sex. Don’t plan it out and go with the flow. If you find her irresistible when she’s reading or when she comes home from work, show it by seducing her right there and then. And it doesn’t mean you have to get all undressed either, just the undies off to get the action going is more than enough.
#4. You may not know this but gently pulling her hair gets her more aroused.
We don’t mean pulling it from behind acting out a hooker-style movie scene. Instead, grab strands and tug gently at them. This is ideal when you are engaged in a hot, passionate encounter where she wants it a little rougher than usual.
#5. She may be a lady every other time but talking dirty to her is hot.
Women love good poetry even if that poet talks dirty. We don’t mean calling her a “slut” or “whore.” We are talking about the gritty details you want to do to her as well as what you love about her body, her face. Women love hearing how good they are in the sack too.